This is just a post for myself.. I am feeling so bottled up.. 
I have not been talking about this brother of mine. We share the same mother but not the same father. We seldom contact and our age gap is by 10 years. He is in Sec 1 now. He haven been staying with us for about 7 years or so due to parents divorce and he is with his father but.. his father got a 1 room flat himself, remarried and left him with his grandma..
He is now uncontrollable. Without the love of parents and his grandma do not bother about him as well. He do not have his own room, he do not have computer.. he dont have anything and he dont have any family love at all. I feel like crying for him. As his sister, i feel that i am obligated to do something for him. I told my mom to bring him back.. i would care for him and if need be, pay for his everything.
I'm from a broken family as well since young only with the care of my aunty. I totally understand hw he feels. He go ard telling ppl that his parents divorce and he is without any family love + his grandma dont care about him. 
That is the worse thing that can happen. I am so afraid that he will choose the wrong route. I'm asking myself, what is he doing outside.. Is he learning how to smoke? will he take drugs? He's not at home everyday. He's outside at lan shop or everyday hanging ard at friends house.
His friends say that he is very LOYAL (Jiang yi qi). But in what way? His friend say he can lend ppl money whenever they need and they dont have to return. Is this LOYAL!!!!!! He is silly.. Haiz..
I am going to bring him back tomorrow and let my mom have a good talk with him. Oh well.. How i wish he could change sch and move back with us. We need to let him know that we're always here for him whenever he needs. Haiz..
